YEAR IN REVIEW: 2020 Photo Summary

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Looking back on 2020

Let's face it, 2020 wasn’t quite what we may have imagined it to be. In-between the events put on hold due to lockdown, the heartache of being separated from friends and family, not to mention the devastating loss of loved ones that many have sadly been put through in 2020, a global pandemic was something that none of us would have imagined we’d experience. 

In a year that exposed us to more challenges than many of us thought would be possible to face in our lifetimes, let alone during a matter of months, 2020 may not have been what we had hoped it would be, but it has provided the opportunity to learn so many different things, not least about ourselves, our priorities in life and what truly matters to us all. 

Among all of the devastation and distress caused by Covid-19, this last year has offered a stage for so many amazing people to shine. Not least the key workers who have carried on, despite what's happening around them and the likes of Captain Sir Thomas Moore raising £32.8 million for the NHS.

I am so grateful that in 2020 I had the safety of home to rely on, was living with my family, and were in the comfortable position, that we didn’t have the weight of financial worries to bear. 

It would be so easy to look back at 2020 and simply want to forget it, but there's always value to be taken away from each year, whether an important lesson or overall perspective.

2020 was a hell of a year, but I feel it is only right to look back on the positive achievements and highlights (however small) from the year that we won’t forget, 2020...

six at the theatreballie ballerson

January:

When reflecting back on the state of play in January 2020, it’s hard to imagine a life without restrictions, but it’s so nice to look back on what I’d managed to squeeze into the 3 months pre-lockdown.

This included watching Six @ The Lowry Theatre in Manchester (amazing btw, a must-see when the theatres finally reopen), a trip to Whitby with my Nana who was meeting her 106-year-old pen-pal, a bumper date day to Manchester (it was as if my subconscious knew we soon wouldn’t be able to see each other for much of 2020), which included an Afternoon Tea, Junkyard Golf, Table Tennis @ Twenty Twenty Two and Bowling (mostly courtesy of our Buckt Subscription Box). 

To end the month, and to commemorate the imminent end of my degree, our uni held a final year celebration evening for our course, where I was fortunate to receive an award for Overall Contribution. Little did we know at the time that this would be the only way we would be celebrating our achievements, as our graduation was sadly cancelled among the madness.

To wrap up January, I jumped on a train (what a novelty!) to join my friends, who would be surprising my friend Molly for her birthday! The fact that we spent the afternoon jumping in an adult ball pit @ Ballie Ballerson would now be thought of as germ-central, but at the time, the thought didn’t even cross our minds! (I’ll blame the cheap porn star martini cocktails we were drinking!)

Looking back on 2020, January at the time seemed to be extravagant, and I almost felt guilty for all of the gallivanting I was doing, but I am so grateful now that I made the most of the free time I then had. 

quaint looking airbnb

two donkeys

February:

February was another busy month. At home, we had the arrival of two new donkeys, following the bereavement of our older donkey Tilly, as well as finally making a start (and eventual finish) to our long overdue Utility room renovation (5 years in the making!)

I also had 3 further trips away, the first being a staycation city break to York with my boyfriend, the second was a long weekend away for ‘galentines’ with my best friends in Anglesey, and the last overnight stay was for a Leap Year Wedding! With 100+ guests, I am so pleased that the wedding went ahead, just before the madness of lockdown ensued...

March:

At the start of March, we could sense that changes were a-foot, and despite starting the month still commuting to uni as usual, and socialising with friends in Birmingham's city centre, the end of the month saw our university lectures moved online to Microsoft Teams, and the joys that came with that. 

23rd March. Need I say more about the day that changed everything… 

lamb being bottle fedbaby lamb

April:

April was, as you’d expect, spent at home. Fortunately for me, home is among rural surroundings, and living on a farm comes with its perks. April brought the birth of baby lambs, two of which I hand-reared for a number of weeks, so between doing uni from home and weekly Friday night Zoom Quizzes carefully crafted by one of my closest friends, time was spent doing farmer’s daughter duties.

cakes

May:

In May, we marked the VE Day May Bank Holiday, 75 years since VE Day, by making ourselves our own Afternoon Tea with cake and sandwiches, which we sat out on our patio to eat, with the glorious weather we were having.

Despite still being in lockdown, I was kept preoccupied with the impending doom that was my dissertation and final year university deadlines. 

I had been due to present in front of a panel for one of my modules, but this was instead changed to pre-recording our advertising pitches to upload instead. This, thankfully, was a welcome relief for me (I’m not a huge fan of presenting live) as I fashioned a tripod in my room by stacking various boxes and dragged in a projector and screen to replicate a ‘real-life’ pitch the best I could.

By the end of May, I had finished my degree and mourned what would have been the end of my uni experience- most likely far too many cocktails on Colmore Row...

June:

By June, I was well into my graduate job search. To my delight, I had been offered a number of interviews and had progressed to the second stage of a couple of roles I had applied for. One in particular, that I had applied for earlier in the year, but hadn’t heard back from, had re-opened the role I had applied for and wanted to proceed to the later interview stages. This was such a relief and the job was ideal, it perfectly matched the experiences I had gained during my placement year, and was also local to home.

July:

July saw a month of even more great weather, and the permission to meet one other household indoors, which was a welcome relief from the strict Covid guidelines we’d been subject to since March.

With the great weather, I was able to do something I’d wanted to do for a while, which was to go fruit picking. In July, I was able to meet some friends at Woore Fruit Farm to pick strawberries, whilst trying to avoid being sunburnt.

As we were able to meet in groups of 6 outdoors in July, it was the perfect opportunity for outdoor BBQs, and special birthday occasions could be celebrated with more than just your household. My friend Georgia’s birthday was marked in the garden of her new house with a beautiful outdoor buffet - thank you George! - as well as my sister Rachel’s 21st birthday, which was celebrated with a BBQ in our garden.

July was also the month where it was confirmed that I would be graduating with a first in my Marketing, Advertising and PR Degree, and starting my new job as a Digital Marketing Executive, but unfortunately would not be having a graduation ceremony.

August:

August was ‘famously’ marked by the Governments ‘Eat Out to Help Out Scheme’. Although not great for the waistline, this proved the perfect opportunity to meet with friends and grab a bargain at our local restaurants. Like most weekends since March, I continued to go on my long weekend walks, including a sunset walk with a view.

roman baths

September: 

September was the month that the UK Government finally published in their guidance that couples didn’t need to socially distance anymore. This was a welcome break from the 2m distancing that my boyfriend and I had been following since March. With this change in guidance, we took the opportunity to take a staycation to Bath, a trip we’d originally planned for June, before restrictions soon tightened again.

October: 

At the start of October, we were still able to meet with 1 other household indoors, so my mum, auntie and I had taken the opportunity to take a well overdue Spa Day to celebrate my mum’s birthday at Moddershall Oaks Country Spa Retreat in Stone. Although a little strange having to wear masks in a spa, it was great to feel a sense of semi-normality.

Unfortunately, this same weekend would end in Tiers…

In my area, we’d been lucky to be a Tier 2 area, but this meant that we were no longer allowed to mix indoors with other households, and we were now restricted to outdoor meetings of 6 people.

November:

On 31 October 2020, it was announced that England would go into a second ‘lockdown’ from 5 November 2020 and non-essential shops were closed once again.

Although there wasn’t much we were able to do in November, we took the opportunity to celebrate Bonfire night as a 4, by lighting our own bonfire, took part in a virtual cocktail night for two of my friends birthdays, enjoyed a Chinese takeaway for my dad's birthday and I won £25 on my premium bonds! - we must celebrate the little victories!


sledging

December:

After November’s lockdown, we returned to Tier 2 until Boxing Day. This meant that I was, fortunately, able to go out with my family for a birthday meal, meet outdoors for very cold Christmas Eve drinks with friends before spending a very small Christmas day as just the four of us - a stark contrast to the big Christmas we would normally have, before we were plunged into Tier 4.

Christmas week also saw the arrival of snow, so we took the opportunity during the limbo between Christmas and New Year to go sledging.

So that was my 2020 in a nutshell! Not quite the year we’d have hoped for, but certainly, one to remember!

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